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The standards I hold in love.

My cheat sheet for standards in my romantic relationships, from all of my relationship study, plus a 45-minute intro video. Feel free to create your own based on it.

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What's inside

Everything I come back to in love

Non-negotiables

When to walk away, immediately.

Yellow flags

Notice, name, slow down, and watch for the pattern.

Standards, green flags and needs

What I allow in my life, from emotional attunement to conflict and repair.

How I hold myself

I don't chase, I discern and invite. I am rooted in my worth.

Growth spots and shadows

Overfunctioning, chasing, rushing intimacy, boundary blurring.

Prompts, boundaries and reflection

Questions to interrupt old patterns, and prompts for tending a committed partnership.
Because all of life is interconnected

Love, money and business are one ecosystem

The way we hold our standards in love is the way we hold them with money, clients and our work. My clients often bring their relationships into our space, and this is where some of the deepest shifts happen.

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